Wednesday, February 29, 2012

Dating Your Spouse - Date Idea #5 - Take Her Dancing at Home

There is something about dancing with my wife that makes me feel more connected to her, but when it comes to dates it is very hard to find a dance venue that is suitable to attend.  The club atmosphere with alcohol overflowing isn't what my wife and I enjoy.  Not that I have anything against alcohol in moderation, it just seems hard to find a classy place to go dancing.

If you have never taken your wife dancing, you should give it a try.  And here is the good news - you can do it at home.  Don't worry.  You don't have to be a perfect dancer.   Even a modest effort on your part will put your wife on cloud nine (assuming she like dancing).   This date is also nice because you can do it at home after you put the kids down for bed.

Pulling this off is really quite simple.   Browse your CD or mp3 collection for some great songs,  and choose a few songs that she likes and a few that you like.  You can mix it up with a few upbeat songs and a few nice swaying tunes.   To add a nice touch - dress up for the occasion.   You might even have some sparkling grape juice or wine to enjoy between your dancing interludes. 

Dancing is a great way to connect with your wife. There is something about moving together in unison that is a physical expression of what your relationship is like emotionally and spiritually.  God has called us to be one with our wives so use this date idea to pursue oneness and connection with her.

Another great plus to this date, is you can express as much passion and desire in your dancing as you and your wife would like.  No need to keep it tame - as long as you both enjoy your time together!  Maybe you could checkout a ballroom dancing video at the library and spice up the evening with a little salsa dancing or maybe even a tango.

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